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08

th (1)      Living life after divorce can be somewhat challenging. After all you have to change the whole way you view your life. You are no longer two people thinking and living as one, you are now one person that don’t have the strength and help of another person that you can rely on.

However, you should know that there can be happiness and you can have a good life after a divorce. It is up to you to pick yourself up and make the decision to live a happy life and this Squidoo Lens is here to help you through it. This lens will lead you to some helpful advice that will help you through living life after divorce.

Not Wanting To Let Go

The Need To Hang In There

draft_lens2233637module168474613photo_fcb26659be9f711306774 It’s hard to let go of something that you have gotten used to for many years. You’ve created a routine, a way of doing things, a way of living that is now a part of you. And divorce tears all that down.

The thing you don’t want to do is try to hold something together that is un-fixable. Sure you should try to fix your marriage when you first see it falling apart and if that works, great. But once it is totally obvious that your spouse is dead set on getting out of the marriage you have to let go.

Even if you can convince your spouse to stay at moment, if they are truly determined to leave it’s going to happen eventually. Meantime your are both going to be stuck in an unhappy marriage.

It’s not going to be easy, but letting go is better in the long run than living in misery for even a short amount of time.

Telling Your Kids About Your Divorce

Helping Your Kids Through Life After

draft_lens2233637module12076103photo_1224100228divorce4 Sometimes in a divorce the spouses are not the only ones who’s lives are changed. If you have children their lives are changed also. Divorce can be very hard on the kids. It is very important that when it comes to divorce and children that you tell them in a way that they will understand that it’s not their fault and that everything is going to be okay.

Preparing your children for divorce should not be taken lightly and there is help for this. “How Do I Tell The Kids About The Divorce?” is a Create-a-Storybook styled guide that can help you tell your children you’re divorcing in a loving and caring way that they will understand and feel good about.

Here is what this guidebook can do for you.

* It will make you feel confident about how to begin and end your conversation.

* It will make you aware of what your children may be thinking and feeling.

* It will help you prepare to share the six essential concepts with your children that they need to understand.

* It will help you to avoid anxiety, awkwardness and stumbling for just the right words.

 

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